With nearly one in every two marriages ending in divorce, and people forming new relationships, today a family with step-children, half-brothers and sisters is increasingly common.
It’s tough enough for most parents to co-parent when they’re not living in the same home, but when new partners enter the picture it can all get complicated! When things are amicable between the parents it’s much easier to maintain a balance. Where possible, introducing a new partner to your ex-partner at an early stage can help avoid friction and allows the children to see you all getting along. It’s also important that a step-parent doesn’t try to replace the natural parent and respects the natural parent’s place in the child’s family.
The role of a step-parent
Step-parents don’t have the same rights as natural parents unless they are awarded parental responsibility. Generally, parental responsibility is automatically a right of the birth mother and the biological father, provided he is shown on the child’s birth certificate or married to the mother of his biological child. However, step parents can get parental responsibility in one of three ways:- A parental responsibility agreement
- A court order
- A ‘lives with’ order (previously referred to as ‘residence’ or ‘custody’).